How mutual matching works at Matched X Singles

The timeline

BeforeSet up your guest profile. First name, a photo, and which contact details you’d share with a match. Finish it by the end of the event day.
The dayPlay, mingle, enjoy it. No decisions needed.
9am next dayChoices open. Pick Date, Friend or No for each person who was there. You have 48 hours, and you can change your mind until choices close.
AfterwardsWe email everyone their results, with only the contact details each match chose to share.

What counts as a match

Your choice and theirs
	They pick Date	They pick Friend	They pick No
You pick Date	Date match	Friend match	No match
You pick Friend	Friend match	Friend match	No match
You pick No	No match	No match	No match

What stays private

Nobody ever sees what you picked
Nobody finds out who didn’t pick them
A match only sees the contact details you chose to share

Matched? Read what to say after a match. More detail on how profiles and matching work.

Last checked 3 November 2026. Questions? DM @matchedxsingles or email hello@matchedxsingles.co.uk.

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